clicking with someone

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onto today’s topic: clicking with someone 🤞 

top 10 feelings: clicking with someone immediately.

clicking isn’t a requirement to a friendship. that bond and familiarity can definitely be nurtured overtime, but it’s such a great feeling to click with someone right away. chattering nonstop, discovering overlapping interest after interest, and not realizing the time pass by. ⏰ 

the only way a click ever happens is completely out of the blue. it’s not really something that can be optimized for.

only meeting people for the sake of finding a perfect fit is counterproductive, and you most definitely will not succeed. clicking happens naturally — not with extensive background research and perfect curated conversation topics to ask about.

once you’re comfortable and sure of yourself, these connections form by themself. instead of expending all of your energy outwardly to others, that self-assured energy is what actually draws others in. ⚡️ 

people are drawn to energy after all.

each conversation doesn’t have to click. not everyone is a match, and even less people are a great match. almost nobody is a perfect match. platonically, romantically & everything in between, the same logic applies.

clicking with someone and letting a conversation flow is an amazing, rare feeling, and i’m so fortunate to have experienced it multiple times as i’ve formed my own little community in the bay.

i love people, clicking is magic. 🪄 

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