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i seek novelty
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onto todayās topic: i seek novelty šļø
i googled āi seek noveltyā and turns out thereās a lot of research behind the term ānovelty-seekingā and āneophilia.ā most of it had negative connotations associated with it, so iām going to redefine what seeking novelty looks like for me.
at a baseline, the idea of making the unfamiliar something familiar is exciting to me, so long as it doesnāt go against my values or is guaranteed to be a detriment to my health or relationships. my quest for novelty doesnāt go so far as to compromise the things that matter most to me: my people, health, and ambition. š§āāļø
much of the negative connotations arise when novelty seeking becomes the forefront of oneās identity. i wouldnāt say thatās the case, but it certainly drives a lot of my excitement once iāve been assured my priorities are in order.
let me paint a small picture to put this into context.
whenever i visit a new city, i want to familiarize myself asap. that looks like going from one side of the city to another via public transportation, trying a new cafe or restaurant for each meal, and stepping into spaces that catch my eye, even if itās not āaccording to schedule.ā if i see a unique drink on the menu, thatās what iām going to order, even if my favourite drink is also an option. food and travel are two areas where novelty drives pretty much all of my decision-making. š©āāļø
my love for novelty also shapes a lot of my career-related aspirations. i canāt see myself doing the same thing every day ā honestly, i canāt see myself doing the same thing all day for even one day. not only that, i want to create something new in the world, and thatās represents this trait of mine the best.
exploring the unknown is exciting, as long as youāre still grounded to your sense of self.
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