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scarcity mindset
bake more pies š„§
welcome to introspection ft. harsehaj! āļø iām harsehaj, a 19 y/o always up to something in social good x tech.
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onto todayās topic: scarcity mindset š„§
do you have old sticker packs lying around because you didnāt use them as a kid in fear of wasting or finishing them?
same.
being overly fixated on things you donāt have in turn makes you terrified of losing them when you do have them in your grasp. itās like saving up for a new pair of shoes but never wearing them because you donāt want them to get ruined. whyād you buy the pair of shoes then? š
the scarcity mindset goes beyond self-preservation. itās like this irrational fear always telling you that people are taking from you if theyāre growing. itās the mentality of seeing life as a finite pie ā if one person takes a chunk, it leaves less for everyone else. this isnāt a healthy perspective.
if your reaction to a close friend getting admission into your dream program is ācrap, she decreased my chances,ā thatās unhealthy, and can ruin your relationships. realistically, your chances are exactly the same. even if she was rejected, that wouldnāt have made you a more qualified candidate regardless. š¬
on another note, donāt compromise and accept opportunities youāre uninterested in because you think nothing else will ever come by. know your worth, and know thereās more.
the only way to stop focusing on everything thatās lacking is to appreciate what you do have: an abundance mentality. life isnāt a finite pie. we grow. opportunities increase. our circles grow larger.
life is large, and thereās enough for us all.
to live with abundance is to know you can just bake more pies. :)
(btw sorry for the late post, iāve been stuck in the airport all day. š )
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